I think my worst date was the one when I met the woman at a local sports bar and I was running a bit late because of traffic, it was a Friday. I was maybe 10-15 minutes late, but when I arrived she was pretty drunk. We couldn’t really have a conversation and she was kind of falling all over me. Within a few minutes after I arrived, she got a phone call from her friend who wanted to meet her at another sports bar. She asked me if I wanted to go, but my reply was “I thought we had a date?” I declined to go with her and also informed her that she shouldn’t be driving. Of course, she ignored me and left. My ex was an alcoholic, so I knew how difficult it is to try to reason with a drunk person. I called her later just to make sure she made it to her friend safe, she did. Never saw her again.
That’s a tough one. I suppose a good first date would be one that leads to a second date. If your second date turns out well, then there should probably be a third. The third is where the rubber meets the road, so to speak. By the third date, you should know each other pretty well and if you know that you like each other, then it could be the start of a relationship.